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I'm stalled. Tax season is over though, so I am going back to weight watchers.
Found myself obsessing over my ex, but I think that means I am not facing something going on here. And there are a lot of things going on: my roommate is driving me crazy, but her dog died this week so she is not in a happy place right now for me to try to work things out with her. Boyfriend is being as nice as he can, but we are at the point where I am figuring out some of the lesser points of his personality and I don't know if I can deal with them. He has several health issues not to mention that he is set in some odd ways. Children D and V are coming home from college in less than a month, and I don't know if both are staying with me over the summer or not - means I am not sure what to do about furniture. Spent the weekend rearranging my rooms, moving furniture, sorting things, tossing things, looking at pictures. So many pictures. Of course my ex is in them, they are from trips we took or holidays we celebrated.
Lots going on. Not the least of which is that my weight is up, not even holding steady any more.
Hope your week is going better than mine! Rain today on top of everything else, but it should be beautiful tomorrow!
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Hang in there, easier said than done. You have lots of figuring out to do but look back at your old journals to remind yourself of all the stuff you've figured out already to get this far. I know, it sucks, to always be 'figuring' stuff out but I guess that's life, its a process. Hope you can get the weight back under control, but that will come I think when you get your life back in control. Sorry you are seeing 'thru' Woody a bit now, that happens, doesn't it, there is always a bad side to the good. Good luck with all your thinking and decision making. Hope the kids let you know their plans soon.
20 abr 11 por membro: sarahsmum
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Abba, you do have alot of stressors. I'm sorry. With the X, I'd recommend just dealing and letting go. I am also divorced and it takes time, but there is a reason they are the X and sometimes we get hung up and think of only all the great times. Try to think of the things that led him to be X. It always seems rosey later. I can't offer on the current guy. That is your decision on the relationship and if you want to continue it or not. I always find rearranging and cleaning helps me to relax, the photos can be a distractor though. The other things you can't control, but your weight you can:) Eating healthy can make you feel better. Light exercise if you can do it can also help you feel better by distracting. Tomorrow and so in will be beautiful for you. Hope things calm down. There has to be calm in the chaos sometimes:)
20 abr 11 por membro: windrider
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Wow Abba I am so sorry to hear about all that. Maybe you just need to take a step back and regroup, Maybe Woody came along too soon and you are not ready to commit and that is alright. You have to do what you want to do and what is right for you. Ashley will be home soon too and I am concerned about my being away so much while she is home. Things will work out. Take is slow and easy one day at a time and do what is right for you. Oh and it's really good that you are noticing these issues about Woody now. This is the time. Have a great day Abba!!
20 abr 11 por membro: chattycathy1955
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OH honey, things will work them selves out. Try not to worry so much. And
of course your having these feelings. You have been burning the candle at
both ends and now its time to do some thinking. Hang in there and you'll be fine............Bren
20 abr 11 por membro: BHA
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